So tonight my husband was out with his drinking/single man buddy. They hit the go-go bars to hang out with hookers all night (ok so this part isn't the unusal part). Anyway....I started to cramp and the kind I had before my last ER visit. SHIT! So I am sitting in bed crying and all upset but I don't dare call my hubby because I have been told before I'm just over emotional (YEAH ME! LOL) and that I just want to ruin his fun. NOT. Anyway I don't call him because I don't want to get in trouble. So he gets home (yes at the time he told me he would be) and of course drunk. I tell him I am having cramping like last time and that my cervix is soft (did a check). He does offer to go to the ER, but I'm not bleeding so I said lets wait--plus I don't want my drunk hubby in the ER with me. So he asks if there is anything he can do.....I say no because there really isn't. So what does he do....Oh I will give you options...
A. Curls up next to me and give me lots of love and support.
B. Lays there not knowing what to do/say.
C. Masturbates next to me curled up in bed and goes to sleep.

yep you guess it C!!!!!!!!! Ok so now I am PISSED....which does allow me to not focus on the cramps at least. Men are stupid sometimes! (oh and yes he knows I'm blogging this!, its my pregnancy journal and these are the things I will remember forever).
And don't worry I am going to the doctors today(afternoon today) to get checked out.